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How sad is that, to flip back every few months and see that no one wants Mister Right? Roommate: Well, to e Harmony, crazy and artist are the same thing. I’d rather be crazy and interesting, than sane and dull. I saw him at a distance at this wealthy church on Mulholland Drive. Maybe he’d seen me at a distance too, and decided I was too old, since I was out of high school. Two years later, Mister Right was still up for grabs. But had just had an endoscopy and was drugged on Percoset. Men who were never brave enough to admit that, sometimes life sucks and doesn’t make sense. This time I asked my roommate how she knew they rejected people they thought were “crazy.” Roommate: They rejected me. Susan: That’s not because you’re crazy, that’s because you’re an artist. He seemed cool, but some of his pictures looked a little narcissistic. He kept flipping his hair and checking out the high school aged ‘babes.’ He never emailed me back. I got matched with nice Christian mojo-free men who worked in the Air Force or computer sales. I saw this one guy’s profile, said he was 43, a Christian and worked in the arts. He was hot to meet me, but kept having to go out of the country on business. While online some “Christian brother” in Arkansas instant messaged me, “if you were a hot dog, would you eat yourself? This time I lied, and said I always thought life was full of meaning.More than 400 singles marry a match they found on e Harmony every day. What if I’d like to spend a week night alone with a black man? Come on, I didn’t get even ONE of the 24 dimensions right? As if being 41 and still single didn’t tell me that already? No thanks, I’d rather walk than drive the wrong car. He asked if I saw gray areas, contradictions and nuances in life. Creative artists probably see too much nuance and complexity. e Harmony’s core belief is that people get along if they think alike. And anyway, I couldn’t look for a mate like I was shopping for a car: at the end of the day you’re supposed to pick one. When I told him I’d been rejected three times, he asked if I was a complex thinker.Seven years ago I decided I needed to get over my ex. Back then, internet dating felt like a realm reserved for the desperate. Dimensions being a new way to market the human character. He’d even worked as a journalist for Christian magazines. Writer Guy: Think “Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind.” I’d like to have most of it erased. It had been five months since we broke up, and he managed to meet someone the following week. Mail-order brides, ex-nuns with facial hair, obese IT nerds who live alternate lives online as robo-cut Japanese animé heroes.
Yes, many of the other sites send you a few people that it feels you would be compatible with, but e Harmony goes one step further.
He seemed fun, but in our first phone call, he talked about his friends like I already knew them. Finally we got to the open questions, but before he could ask me about the size of my dowry, I asked him why it was so important that his partner be so attractive but he didn’t have his picture posted. It was a long shot of a man sitting on top of a Coleman cooler in a weedy back yard. He stared off in a strange direction, like a Civil War daguerreotype. The others I got matched with looked into the camera but had creepy vacant eyes, like the church had stolen their spontaneity. I figured this kind of matching works for people in the fly-over states who chose their jobs because a college counselor told them they’d like it.
At best, the guy says, “that’s great for you.” And doing the spiritual life alone got really lonely. Then I got an email from some church boy who worked in film. Must have a woman who is in excellent physical shape. Can’t stand a woman who is not extremely attractive.
Before you go running after reading that last sentence, hear me out: this is the great thing about e Harmony.
By really getting to know you, the site is much better at matching you up with members of the opposite sex.